Dating an ex whos cheated before
I have been dating a guy I met online for about 3 months now. My boyfriend has many good qualities, and I really like him a lot (I’m starting to love him).
My boyfriend seems to be VERY obsessed with never allowing anything like that to happen to him again, and is easily upset by any talk of men I dated before him, even though all of those relationships were extremely superficial and I maintain absolutely no contact whatsoever with any man I ever dated before him.
What IS important though is that you've talked to your partner about their past actions. Have they talked through what behaviors, attitudes, and emotions led to their cheating?
And further, have they taken steps to ensure they will not be repeated?
If you have a history of dating cheaters or know way too many girls who have, then you might need to rethink how you pick your boyfriends. And, yes, I know girlfriends can cheat too, but for the next few blogs, we’re going to talk about boyfriends.
There is lots of advice floating around in books, blogs, and every-day conversations about why guys cheat.
The first thought that entered our minds—after wondering, why the heck a couple would release professional Sears-esque photos to announce their coupledom?But if you haven’t figured this out yet, you will eventually discover that guys are really not that complex.The male approach to dating lies somewhere between that of a caveman and a mechanical engineer, often more like the caveman. When it is time for a dating relationship to end, they end it and move on. Lots of boyfriends are honest, they keep to their promises, and they do not cheat.